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The plusOne Rose Toy Arouser is my budget pick for direct vibration. For suction-style stimulation, look at Lovehoney’s Rose. Check the exact model: rose toys do not all work alike.
My pick for a flexible fit is the SpareParts Joque Cover. Choose RodeoH Brief+ for a pull-on style or Sportsheets Purple for a lower price. Each needs a compatible attachment.
Uberlube is worth a look if you want a silicone lube without added scent. Its main limits: no polyurethane condoms, and no silicone toys unless the toy maker allows it.
Smile Makers Generous Gel is my pick here for silicone toys. It is a thicker water-based lubricant. A 60 ml tube costs $9.95 at Ulta. Check its ingredients and avoid polyurethane condoms.